Does this make my bum look big?
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This Hub is in response to the question of what possible answers there could be for a man to give to a woman's question of "Does this make my bum look fat?"
It's going to be a rather short Hub.
There is only correct answer. And that answer is "No." Of course, you can get fancy with it and say "Of course not, darling" and "Your bum never looks fat" or "You couldn't look fat in anything if you tried" or "Fat? Are you kidding me?" and fall down laughing.
EVEN IF her bum looks as big as the broad side of the barn.
She doesn't really want to know whether the clothing she chose "makes her bum look fat". She is well aware of her size and what size she wears. She knows what looks good on her and what doesn't. She owns a mirror. Probably more than one.
What she really wants to know is ...
Do you love her anyway? Do you love her regardless of the size or the shape of her bum? Are you happy to be seen with her? Even if her bum is the size of Mars?
The possible consequences from any other answer are too chilling to discuss in any detail.
It's not about the bum. It's about the love.
Men need to learn to take women a tad less literally.
And women need to learn to communicate better with men, mean what they say instead of beating around the bush, and asking for what they want.
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Yes, it does.
You really got to be a "BUM" (pun intended) urself if you think ur lady be it ur wife/girlfriend or even prospective girlfriend or prospective wife is actually looking for a honest evaluation least of all from someone who sees her with or without any outfit to seek an opinion about the shape of her bum.
So keep all those honest evaluations for some other topic unless you want her to freeze you without even sending you to Siberia. Not all questions require an answer just as not every question asked expects a serious evaluation. So unless if the lady is as blind as a bat or she cannot take decisions on any subject under the sun, this is one question that is best either left unanswered or better still given an answer that she expects to hear, even if it is several light years away from the truth!!
Nicely done and goes to the heart of the matter.
Ahhh, I see. So honesty is not the best policy in such cases. This kinda explains some rather irrational behaviour, I mean, I was only telling the truth. :)
BristolBoy Level 1 Commenter 3 years ago
As you said it is a very short hub, but one that answers the question fully so well done!